We have a civility crisis on our hands. Incivility happens in the workplace, in our communities, in our homes.
Incivility can be bold or subtle. It can be more passive, experienced in the form of dismissing, discounting, or demeaning others or their ideas. It can be more aggressive, experienced in the form of name-calling, bullying, physical abuse, and worse.
Watching our presidential candidates’ recent behavior here in the U.S. shows quite a bit of the subtle and too-frequent demonstrations of the bold!
27% of U.S. workers have experienced or are experiencing abusive conduct at work
Bosses are responsible for 56% of bullying in the workplace
Most concerning is that 72% of employers deny, discount, encourage, rationalize, or defend abusive behavior in their organizations
Incivility erodes trust, respect, and dignity, which, in turn, erodes performance by individuals and teams. How do we know? We have anecdotal experience that supports these outcomes of incivility. Even better, we have Google’s Project Aristotle.
Google's Project Aristotle
In 2012, Google began studying how to create the perfect team at Google. The initiative, called Project Aristotle, studied hundreds of Google’s teams to understand why some teams performed well and enjoyed working together while other teams struggled.
They researched and studied like crazy. They couldn’t find consistent, distinct patterns. Some great teams had strong managers while other great teams had hands-off managers. Some strong teams hung out after work and on weekends while other great teams engaged only in their work together.
They began looking at team culture and team norms — those formal and informal guidelines for how people are to treat each other on the team. They found that a team culture and norms that establish psychological safety — a sense of confidence that team members will not embarrass, reject, or punish someone for speaking up — was a consistent feature of Google’s most successful teams.
After four years of study, the project team found that when talented team members trust, respect, and value each other’s experiences and ideas, the team thrives. People are nice to each other. They listen and show sensitivity to peers' feelings and needs. And that doesn’t describe how many teams operate today.
We have work to do. By creating a values-based organizational culture and norms, we can reduce the frequency of incivility in people’s lives. That’s an outcome worth pursuing.